My Journey as a Stay-at-Home Father

When my son, John, was born, I didn’t embark to be a stay-at-home father. I didn’t know any other dads who stayed at home to take care of their kids full-time, I didn’t grow up with a stay-at-home father, and the concept of being a man who changed his job...

It’s Book Festival Season! Come Meet Me.

Hi All! Today I want to share with you the news that I will be attending two events in North Carolina next month in September. I haven’t done an event for some time now, and I am very much looking forward to sharing the news of Night Buddies Go Sky High’s...

Why You Need Rituals in Your Parenting Life

Last week, I wrote about how necessary forming rituals as a writer can be in order to produce the best work you can as regularly as you can. But then, after I wrote that post, I started thinking about that same principle in terms of parenting. Could forming rituals in...

Why You Need Rituals in Your Writing Life

“The secret of your future is hidden in your daily routine.” –Mike Murdock When I was a younger man, I was against forming routines. I lived spontaneously, I took each day as it came at me with no expectations, and I thought routine would be the end of my creativity....

Tips For Writing Three-Dimensional Characters

There are two main elements to a story: plot and character. There is debate amongst writers whether one of these aspects is more important than the other, which is why some books are plot-driven while others are character-driven, but the reality is that your book will not succeed if your...

Surviving and Thriving During Your Child’s Summer Vacation

As we come to the end of July, you’re probably thinking one thing: “Only one more month until school starts again.” Some of you may be thinking of that as a negative; of course, it’s wonderful to have more time to spend with your children, and can be difficult to...

Should Your Book Be Made Into a Series?

I’ve written one blog post before about making the decision to write a children’s book, (link to that post here) but I didn’t mention that the decision to write a series of children’s books was actually a separate decision. You see, most authors don’t take on writing a series the...

Cheesecake Flavors (and Recipes) You Need to Try

Summer for me means a few things—trips to the beach, BBQ’s, and of course, trying new cheesecake flavors! I took to the Internet recently trying to find original, unique cheesecake flavors to test out, and today I’m sharing my favorites with you! Caramel Macchiato Cheesecake Thought a macchiato was only...

There is No “Right” Time to Write

One of the most common problems among new writers is when they say this: “I can only write when [insert arbitrary rule here].” Sometimes they think they can only write in the early morning, sometimes only when their children are out of the house, sometimes only when they feel inspired—but...

The Benefit of Doing Live Readings as an Author

I was fortunate to be invited to do a live reading of my newest book, Night Buddies Go Sky High, at the store Books to be Red on Ocracoke Island, NC last week, and it was one of the best experiences I’ve had since the book released earlier this year....

Book Recommendation Time! Best Parenting Books

With so many parenting books on the market these days, it’s difficult to sort through and choose the ones that will be most applicable to your situation and your life. This is why I’ve provided a few different types of parenting book titles below—from ones aimed to parents of young...

Why Your Local Library is the Perfect Summer Hangout

It’s official . . . school is out for the summer! While your child is probably jumping for joy at the idea of spending an entire season away from classrooms, homework, and early mornings, us parents tend to have a few more hesitations during this long break. How do we...

10 Quotes About Parenting That’ll Make You Smile

1. “When my kids become wild and unruly, I use a nice safe playpen. When they’re finished, I climb out.” --Erma Bombeck 2. “Having one child makes you a parent; having two you are a referee.” --David Frost 3. “I used to believe my father about everything but then I...

Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Sit Down to Write Your Children’s Book

So one day it hits you—that perfect idea, the one you know is your key to becoming a children’s book author. You do a little character developing, you download Scrivener, you’re ready to take that idea and turn it into a children’s book, right? Wrong. Almost every person believes they...

Taking a Time-Out: Why Fathers Need to Value Their Personal Time

It’s time to admit it to yourself . . . you need a break. But why is it so hard for men, fathers in particular, to vocalize their need to step back for a bit and spend some time—whether it be a day, or even an hour—focusing on rejuvenating themselves...

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